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5 Best Pieces Of Advice For Getting Over An Ex

As an online divorce review site, we see many visitors who struggle through the divorce process to get over their ex. Usually these are not people who want the divorce, but they realize the decision is no longer in their hands, and now they’re left with the question of what to do. What comes next? To help, we’ve compiled some of our favorite responses from reddit pertaining to the art of getting over an ex. See if any of these help you get to a better place.

1. “This too shall pass. Your ultimate goal is to be in an emotional place of neither love nor hate. To be business-like in any and all dealings with your ex. Notice I didn’t say this would be easy or happen overnight but like any worthy goal, it is attainable and the sooner you start your journey to that goal the quicker you will heal and move forward.”

2. “Exercise has been quite a salvation for me. I haven’t tried much strict meditation, but yoga and I have gotten quite close in the last year.”

3. “I know I could never recover having found out she was fooling around. Also, I know that me being nostalgic about our past is normal. We did have good times and I appreciate and give thanks for all I’ve learned about myself in my marriage and my divorce. … I am feeling better now about my life, headed in a good direction. This much I know, and I’m gonna take it one day at a time. Also, Tong Len meditation has helped me out a bunch.”

4. “It’s cliche and SO much easier said than done, but you need to refocus on yourself. Which traits did you bury because she didn’t like them? Rediscovering those parts of yourself might be a good place to start in recapturing that feeling of excitement and fulfilment in your life without your ex.”

5. “What’s also good to try is changing your environment. Simple things like removing pictures, rearranging furniture, redecorating, a new shirt, or wardrobe. Changing where you go after work, on weekends, even the route you take. All these little changes add up to a new outlook, to looking forward rather than back.”

What is some of the best advice that you have received for getting over an ex? Sound off in our comments section.

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